Curious Minds Want to Know! |
Let’s face it, most of us have at
least a little voyeur in our souls. I would posit that part of that trait comes
from nature and some comes from nurture.
On the nature side, from our
prehistoric days, humans needed to pay attention to what was happening in the
world around them if they hoped to survive. The approaching stranger – is his
expression open and friendly or closed and hostile? Have the birds and insects
grown quiet, maybe hinting at danger nearby? Do the clouds look ominous meaning
we’d best find shelter?
There is also the deep-seated
desire to connect with people on an intimate level. In the large and scary
world out there, most of us don’t want to be alone. We crave emotional
closeness and the sense that we belong somewhere. Since the rise of social
media, we’ve been given a unique opportunity to feed the beast of curiosity –
to connect with those we may only know online, to learn about what they are
thinking a feeling at any given moment in time. We want to feel like we know
them, even if we’ve never met them. Learning more about others can also give us
a point of reference for ourselves and what we might feel in a similar
situation.
Nurture comes into play because
we’re encouraged to become involved with those around us from a young age. How
many of us have cooed over our infants trying to get them to say ‘mama’ or ‘dada’?
Our parents clap and cheer when we reach new milestones – smiling, walking,
talking. We’re encouraged – sometimes by spending time in the corner – to socialize
in a way that wins friends.
So it doesn’t surprise me at all
that readers form attachments to their book heroes and heroines. Books give you
a view inside a character’s head that you probably don’t even have with your
best friend – but we always want to go deeper. We want to know what may not be
in the book. What are their favorite foods, songs, colors, seasons, and why?
Where does the character go to think or to unwind? What are their pet peeves?
What would the inscription on their tombstone say? Basically we want to see
into their souls.
Stop every Wednesday and meet a
new character from a group of amazing romance authors. Hopefully, these guest
posts help satisfy your curiosity and pique your interest enough to follow the
links and read the character’s story.
The goal of the “Meet the
Character” series is to answer the questions you wish you could ask when you’re
reading the book. Below are the questions I send out to authors that their
characters can answer. I’d love to hear why you enjoy reading character interviews and any suggestions you have for new
questions to add to the list.
QUESTION
OPTIONS:
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How old are you?
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What is your relationship status?
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When you look in the mirror, what do
you see?
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What is people’s first impression of
you?
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Name three of your favorite things.
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Name three things that tick you off.
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What is your best memory to date?
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What are you most afraid of?
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What would you like it to say on your
tombstone?
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Now on to something lighter, what is
your favorite drink?
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What is your favorite food?
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What is your favorite song?
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Do you have a hobby and if yes, what is
it?
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What was your first impression of (his/her
love interest)?
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If we could only hear your voice (but
not see you) what characteristic would identify you?
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What would you most like to forget?
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If you could go back in time, what one
thing would you change in your life?
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Are you close to family?
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Do you see morality as black-and-white,
or with shades of gray?
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Do you care about what others assume
about you?
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If someone from your past showed up,
who would you most want it to be, and why?
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If someone from your past showed up,
who would you most NOT want it to be, and why?
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If you could make any one thing happen,
what would it be?
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Who in your life has the power to hurt
you the most and why?
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Describe a typical Friday night.
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If there is one place in the world you
could go, where would it be?
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What is your most prized possession?
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Are you a morning person or a night
owl?
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What kinds of things do you always
carry (in pockets or purse)?
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What inner doubt causes you the most
difficulty?
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What is your biggest need?
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What would make you completely happy?
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If you had a free day with no
responsibilities and your only mission was to enjoy yourself, what would you
do?
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This was an insightful comment and piqued my ever curious nature. Basically, it's the emotions that we allow our readers to see, feel, taste, smell and hear that bring us closer to them. Like gut wrenching when there's a tragedy; elation when there's happiness; sorrow when we've done something we shouldn't have. Most of all, for this romance writer, there's the joy of finding a kindred soul that you want to spend the rest of your life with--that someone you can't live without. Thanks for this post and the questions.
ReplyDeleteSandra, glad you enjoyed it!
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